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Advice for a man thinking about calling a woman:

So you made that call...what do you say to her? Experience dictates that you should try to get her to talk about herself. She will try to get you to talk about yourself, but don't let her steer the conversation. Often a woman who is looking for a "real man" is looking for a guy who can take charge. She is looking for someone who treats her like a person...similar to how her brother treats her.

So the strategy is fairly simple in that you try to get her to do all of the talking, and make her dig for information from you. For whatever reason, we all like challenges and excitement. Everyone will say how much they hate games, yet they continue to allow themselves to be played.

If the conversation is flowing and you have found a common ground, by all means, let your talk continue. At some point you might want to cut the call short if you have established a later date with her. The reason is that you will obviously want to have something to say to each other when you finally go for your first date together. It is a good strategy to keep this phone conversation unfinished as your starting point for immediate positive communication on your date.

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